#15 Coz Life goes on!

PROLOGUE:

Many at times every one of you must have heard this that "No matter what, Life goes on..", and this is an inevitable truth and the sooner one accepts it, the happier is he to become.Very soon people close to you will go away...time and distance will throw them apart, soon the photos will be mere lifeless snaps, the times spent will be mere memories,your notification shade will no more show a pop up of being tagged in a meme by the same person who was your meme buddy! All the laughs, the cries, the hugs, the moments will be remembered desperately because you know you cannot live them again.Your group will become a phonebook contact, which once used to be on the top of call logs.As your college life ends many things will get replaced in your life too! Friends will be replaced by colleagues, food court lunches will be replaced by high profile board meetings, and the ratio of a spoon to mouth which used to be 1:4 will become 1:1😊.There won't be any other hands feeding you except your own.You will be relieved of the whole group making fun of you😌,but.....trust me on this one....You don't want that feeling in your life anytime soon. But as they say " Life goes on...:)", so must we.

LIVE THE FULLEST!

Melancholy is as seductive as ecstasy😘. 

Spend time with the ones who are really important to you.Make them feel that they are important, you might not get another chance!Academics, your goals, your desires all are important and you gotta balance it all together, a tough job.Set your priorities right.Always remember two types of people in your life, One who put you in difficult times and the one who got you through difficult times.Develop a strong and real bond with the few good people in your life rather than getting attached to everyone easily.It will hurt you only at the end.On the other hand, also not to forget that getting too attached to anyone will also not fetch any good in the long run.Yeah! it's a fucked up life.Don't give too much importance to something that won't matter 5 years from now. Stay calm and enjoy every possible happiness whilst you can!Give Love with an open heart because the world needs more of that.💗

EPILOGUE:

At the end of the day, down the line, you gotta survive on your own buddy.Be mentally and emotionally strong enough to let people go and move on.Be very firm and thoughtful about whom you wanna spend your precious time with. Nobody is perfect. Learn to respect each other's flaws and accept them.Meet up with a huge smile, spread positivity, never let any situation overpower you of who you are!Be Happy in other's success and think good of each other.Even when things don't seem right...just know that this too shall pass because as we all very well know"Life goes on...The Life goes on..."

Comment your views down below and let the emotions flow!😁

Thank you.

#14 New people.

Back to the hobby after a long time!

Feels good.😇

The Thought.

 As we grow up many of us move to different places for higher studies and meet a totally different group of people leaving behind our limited friend circle. We make new friends...some become very close to us and are almost a part of our life. College seems fun with these people...a new bond is developed. From sharing food, bed, personal belongings to going out to most random trips together we start building memories with them.No doubt we enjoy meeting new people and hanging out with them.😊

Suddenly we forget what is left behind  i.e Our “that” little friend circle.It is a controversial statement I just wrote and many hands would be raised to speak up to me against this.I agree that this won't be true for everyone and I do appreciate if this isn't true for you. But this statement was for those who just recalled all the names and memorable moments they shared with their schoolmates and friends. Yes! Maybe you did remember someone.

How to catch up?

Maybe just a hi! Or a call? It will fill you with life! You will just re-live your school life again by a discussion over the phone with your schoolmate.  Take the initiative and you will like it! There must be many people whom you weren't in touch with right after school got over...ask them where they have been all the way long..maybe screw them for not being in touch!😝😜and boast about You being the one to establish the connection. Haha! #justsomeIndianthings😉 Plan a visit to them or maybe a reunion to rebound all the memories together again. And believe me, once you get to that phase of recalling all the memories again....you won't be able to get out from it until you have discussed how you scored A+ in every subject in the nursery to how you made fun of some fat ugly math's teacher in your +2!😂😂😂 Oh, I remember this!😂

The Monotony.

People say college friends are for a lifetime, you may not be connected to all your school friends for life. Partially agreed. No doubt. But on the other hand, it is not that you won't be able to keep your school friends for a lifetime...it's just that communication with them may decrease coz there would be no common topic for discussion. Everyone is going places as per their career demands and obviously, new people and connection will grow eventually but what is important is to keep in mind who means what to you and how to prioritize your time for them.

Trust me, it would have happened to everyone, whenever we see our best friend enjoying with a new college group, we do miss the time we all had similar kind of fun! Well practically it may or may not be possible to relive those moments again but taking the initiative is the least one can do or I should correct myself 'One should do'. Because at the end of the day it is you and your memories people will remember rather than how much money you made. And living in the memories of someone is the most beautiful thing one can achieve.

Go Ahead!

• 3 Things to keep in mind while meeting new people:-

√ Meet new people but make time for the old ones.

√ Don't expect everyone new person you meet to be same as everyone you already know. Everyone has a different story and different outlook on everything.

√One who left his/her old friends to be with you may do it again for someone else. So who knows, you could be the next!

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#10 The Heart stuff

Back again fellow readers! Was induldged in my own internal affairs of life. First and foremost I'd like to wish everyone a very Happy and Prosperous New Year! 😊
And as the new year begins it brings along with it a new energy,a new hope and Time to become a New YOU,leaving all the bad inside you.

Ok people 2016 has ended and So must all the grudges , ill feelings and negativity end. Nothing deserves to be part of your life that makes your heart heavy.Sort things out.Give relationships a new start.See the positive of the other being and that's how you attain inner peace.🤗

People change according to their convinence and choice. Try not to get bothered.I know expectations hurt always but the truth is one who has changed will not be back again.Learn to live with this change. Secondly,the most important thing is to be happy alone. You give to much to others,they take you for granted?Their fault. But this leaves us with a question that should we continue to do the same knowing that we are taken for granted? And the answer is :- Your choice!Do what makes you happy. I won't suggest you to be an Angel and continue doing the same without expecting anything,or become a Satan and don't even bother about that person. It's completly upto you. Someday you will get what you deserve,one who loves you the same way you want to be loved.It will be an automated event. Don't run after someone's importance,if they care they would do it anyways,never will let you be alone.Distance is just a word. People are never busy enough to ignore the important people in their lifes.Its all a matter of priorities.

After doing the wrong people will defend themselves,but you already know the truth,the exact reason for their actions.So you need not worry.Time will give you the solution and will give them a lesson for doing the wrong.Just be happy with what you have and most importantly VALUE the ones who love you. Recognise them and treasure them throughout your life.They are the ones with real good hearts and you would never wanna hurt a person with a good heart!