#9 The ultimate TRUTH..

People and the world are full of lies....and in this world full of lies the only truth is....DEATH. Yes, people, it's definite that anybody who is born has to go one day and this is the ultimate truth.No exceptions.Death spares none.Rich or poor,smart or dumb,beautiful or ugly,everyone is same for it. Everyone comes with nothing and goes with nothing.When a person dies.with him dies many relations and bond which bring sadness.Untimely death is very painful and losing someone close to you is disheartening in itself.

But physical death is not the only truth...People may seem happy on the outside but inside they may be dying due to broken dreams,broken hearts, situational conditions...and this in itself is the truth of life. One must feel blessed if he/she has a happy life with maybe a small group of friends ,small but happy family and a little wealth.Life is a blessing,a gift.It should be valued.

Everyone is running after money,fame, carrying grudges against each other,giving pain to each other.Life is too short for such things and these things won't matter when death approaches. The memories you made with some special people,the relations you had with your family and friends,your deeds....these will matter when one is on his death bed.

Although it brings sadness but death is the ultimate truth of life and one must accept this very practically. And to everyone else out there...You all came to this world crying while everyone else was happy....live a life in such a way that when you leave this world,everyone else cries while you leave happily! :)   

#8 Time-the perfect healer.

After a long time! I am back with another blog and the title is just perfect according to my current situation.I was unable to post any blogs since long because many things in my life were not going smoothly or as people say I was going through a bad phase in my life. But believe me...time is the perfect healer, Everything happens for a reason.Everything has a purpose.Life gives you lessons covered under different shades.It depends on you how you take them.Maybe the closest ones will hurt you someday or maybe a total stranger would suddenly mean a lot to you.I know everyone would be thinking that its all crap,nothing would be better...its just a matter of saying...but just give some time to time...your time will come...and just keep in mind you are not alone :) 

The misunderstanding may creep in and destroy your relation or you may not be too much successful in what you are doing be it academics,sports,job etc. but trust me eventually everything falls into place and life seems better with time. Whenever some thought is troubling you,just think that it wouldn't even matter to you 5 years from now and this will help you to remove the unpleasant thought in your mind.Focus on yourself,give time to yourself,build yourself,develop yourself. Not a single second spent on yourself is wasted. Remove negativity around you.Stay optimistic and believe in yourself.

Everyone has bad phases. Nobody has a perfect life. The name that just popped up in your mind,trust me even he/she would not be having a perfect life if you are thinking so. Happy moments are rare.Live them to the fullest and instead of finding happiness,create it. Indulge in things that give you peace, talk to people who make you happy,cry the tears of joy, not sadness and if still, things are not working out.....give it some TIME,even a little more... Life will get back to you on a positive note. :) 

#7 Happiness :)

Happiness is a term that affects the person and his surroundings both. A happy person can make a depressed person happy and the fun part is that the more you spread happiness the more it grows and makes you even happier! I don't think it's a bad deal at all.A happy person also attracts a lot of other happy people and the circle keeps on increasing.

Everyone has the right to be happy but in no case at the cost of somebody else's happiness.People tend to do what makes them happy without worrying about others.A recent incident that happened in Hyderabad when a medical student threw an innocent puppy from the rooftop of his hostel building. What kind happiness does the pain of one give to other? I wonder who was the animal then.

Even people do this to other people.Trust me afterward when they realize,the guilt is unbearable.

So it's better to keep in mind that you and your happiness be the reason of someone else's smile :)

#6 Being ALONE.. good or bad?

Hey guys! Exam just ended and I was unable to post due to same.Today's topic was suggested to me by a really close friend of mine.

Being alone is a situation that everyone has faced at least once in their lifetime.Maybe everyone else is enjoying,partying hard,having fun with friends and you are probably lying on the bed doing practically nothing.This makes us feel alone or lonely.You want to share something,spend some quality time with someone close or special to you,but instead they are busy somewhere or with someone else.OMG! trust me this feeling is heartbreaking! One just simply dies on the inside and overthinking just arrives at the same platform at the same time. Result? DEPRESSION! Feeling to  leave the world and go to new surrounding and get a new start to life.This is for sure a very very bad phase that one has to go through and what makes it worst it that you are alone.Nobody else can help you recover this phase except you yourself! Until you want to be happy,nobody else can make you happy.

Now let's look at the positive side of being alone.One who has mastered the art of being alone peacefully can just stay happy in any situation.People who tend to be happy alone can find happiness in anything.The blowing wind,the chirping birds,the silence of the night...everything is a means of happiness to them.No expectation from anyone is the key.But that's very hard to achieve.Eventually, people realise that at points even the closest people give unhealable wounds.And personally, in my opinion,you are brought to this world by your parents and after that, you are on your own.Like literally. And the more you invest in yourself the better you become day by day.