#9 The ultimate TRUTH..

People and the world are full of lies....and in this world full of lies the only truth is....DEATH. Yes, people, it's definite that anybody who is born has to go one day and this is the ultimate truth.No exceptions.Death spares none.Rich or poor,smart or dumb,beautiful or ugly,everyone is same for it. Everyone comes with nothing and goes with nothing.When a person dies.with him dies many relations and bond which bring sadness.Untimely death is very painful and losing someone close to you is disheartening in itself.

But physical death is not the only truth...People may seem happy on the outside but inside they may be dying due to broken dreams,broken hearts, situational conditions...and this in itself is the truth of life. One must feel blessed if he/she has a happy life with maybe a small group of friends ,small but happy family and a little wealth.Life is a blessing,a gift.It should be valued.

Everyone is running after money,fame, carrying grudges against each other,giving pain to each other.Life is too short for such things and these things won't matter when death approaches. The memories you made with some special people,the relations you had with your family and friends,your deeds....these will matter when one is on his death bed.

Although it brings sadness but death is the ultimate truth of life and one must accept this very practically. And to everyone else out there...You all came to this world crying while everyone else was happy....live a life in such a way that when you leave this world,everyone else cries while you leave happily! :)   

#8 Time-the perfect healer.

After a long time! I am back with another blog and the title is just perfect according to my current situation.I was unable to post any blogs since long because many things in my life were not going smoothly or as people say I was going through a bad phase in my life. But believe me...time is the perfect healer, Everything happens for a reason.Everything has a purpose.Life gives you lessons covered under different shades.It depends on you how you take them.Maybe the closest ones will hurt you someday or maybe a total stranger would suddenly mean a lot to you.I know everyone would be thinking that its all crap,nothing would be better...its just a matter of saying...but just give some time to time...your time will come...and just keep in mind you are not alone :) 

The misunderstanding may creep in and destroy your relation or you may not be too much successful in what you are doing be it academics,sports,job etc. but trust me eventually everything falls into place and life seems better with time. Whenever some thought is troubling you,just think that it wouldn't even matter to you 5 years from now and this will help you to remove the unpleasant thought in your mind.Focus on yourself,give time to yourself,build yourself,develop yourself. Not a single second spent on yourself is wasted. Remove negativity around you.Stay optimistic and believe in yourself.

Everyone has bad phases. Nobody has a perfect life. The name that just popped up in your mind,trust me even he/she would not be having a perfect life if you are thinking so. Happy moments are rare.Live them to the fullest and instead of finding happiness,create it. Indulge in things that give you peace, talk to people who make you happy,cry the tears of joy, not sadness and if still, things are not working out.....give it some TIME,even a little more... Life will get back to you on a positive note. :) 

#7 Happiness :)

Happiness is a term that affects the person and his surroundings both. A happy person can make a depressed person happy and the fun part is that the more you spread happiness the more it grows and makes you even happier! I don't think it's a bad deal at all.A happy person also attracts a lot of other happy people and the circle keeps on increasing.

Everyone has the right to be happy but in no case at the cost of somebody else's happiness.People tend to do what makes them happy without worrying about others.A recent incident that happened in Hyderabad when a medical student threw an innocent puppy from the rooftop of his hostel building. What kind happiness does the pain of one give to other? I wonder who was the animal then.

Even people do this to other people.Trust me afterward when they realize,the guilt is unbearable.

So it's better to keep in mind that you and your happiness be the reason of someone else's smile :)

#6 Being ALONE.. good or bad?

Hey guys! Exam just ended and I was unable to post due to same.Today's topic was suggested to me by a really close friend of mine.

Being alone is a situation that everyone has faced at least once in their lifetime.Maybe everyone else is enjoying,partying hard,having fun with friends and you are probably lying on the bed doing practically nothing.This makes us feel alone or lonely.You want to share something,spend some quality time with someone close or special to you,but instead they are busy somewhere or with someone else.OMG! trust me this feeling is heartbreaking! One just simply dies on the inside and overthinking just arrives at the same platform at the same time. Result? DEPRESSION! Feeling to  leave the world and go to new surrounding and get a new start to life.This is for sure a very very bad phase that one has to go through and what makes it worst it that you are alone.Nobody else can help you recover this phase except you yourself! Until you want to be happy,nobody else can make you happy.

Now let's look at the positive side of being alone.One who has mastered the art of being alone peacefully can just stay happy in any situation.People who tend to be happy alone can find happiness in anything.The blowing wind,the chirping birds,the silence of the night...everything is a means of happiness to them.No expectation from anyone is the key.But that's very hard to achieve.Eventually, people realise that at points even the closest people give unhealable wounds.And personally, in my opinion,you are brought to this world by your parents and after that, you are on your own.Like literally. And the more you invest in yourself the better you become day by day.

#5 Exam time!

I know this blog will have minimal views because.....It's EXAM TIME!!Alright Alright everyone is busy studying and nobody has time to read this blog but believe me,my exams are going on too but if you read this blog,it's worth spending your precious time on.

As everyone knows,nobody starts studying a month before exams,everyone studies just a day or two before exams.So many of you must be wondering how do they score so good in exams?The reason is,the good scorers always have one common thing i.e. DEDICATION to study.Even if they study for 1 hour,they would study it in a way that they won't forget it for lifetime.No topic is left untouched.Also most of them are good catchers.They remember every detail once its told to them.One of the reason for good scores is PRESENTATION on answer sheet.Each and every answer is explained with proper use of diagrams and theory,so that even the teacher is confused where to deduct marks.

I am not one of the above mentioned students although but still there are some ways everyone can score good marks.

1. Work on the presentation of your answer sheet-Main factor,trust me.Good presentation always get good scores in exams.

2. Concentrate and study-Keep your cellphones away,stay focused and try to set goals and achieve them within given time period.It would be hard at first,but eventually you will start achieving them within deadlines.

3. Make your mind stable- Oh! this point..Its so so hard to keep your mind stable while studying.While studying your mind will always tend to deviate to most ridiculous thoughts ever like,vacation,movies,songs,funny incidents,etc. NO! this is very bad while studying.Its really hard to control but everyone needs to figure out a way to concentrate the mind only on study.I personally either take a power nap or call any of my close friends and talk to them for a while.

So these are some things everyone can do to score good in exams. Any other techniques? Comment down below :)

Thank you guys for reading the blog.If you like it do follow me on my blog. Signing out,need to study, exams going on! :D 

#4 Dil,dosti,etc.

Ok people.This is the topic in which my views may differ from my readers in many ways.But obviously, you can comment down below what you think and also react to my post. People nowadays are confused with love and commitment.Having a girlfriend/boyfriend is NOT LOVE,but rather having someone who was,is and will be there for you always through the ups and down of life is love.One can find love in friendship too. Well, I am no love expert,just sharing my views on this highly controversial topic.I believe commitment should be the final step in a relation when at least one of the two is capable of taking responsibility for  the better half on his own.Until then trust and loyalty are enough to sustain any relation.And about me?Yes, I have some special people in my life. An unspoken love does exist and I do get affected if that love is shared with anybody.

Friendship day,2016.

Talking about friendships!Oh its such a wonderful thing. Friends are the spice of life! They love you,irritate you,fight for you,prank you and what not.But sadly not everyone is as good as you think them to be.The World is full of fake people.You never know who could stab you right behind your back.Trust is built by actions and honestly, in the 2 years span of my college life,I learned that trusting someone blindly can be dangerous. Friendship day,2015-"Promise to be friends forever! I promise.",Friendship day,2016-The eyes turned away seeing the face that promised to be "Friends Forever."

Yes, I know a name suddenly popped up in the mind reading above sentence, but this is a harsh reality of life.I am able to relate because I have been through the same.Time is powerful.It acts as a perfect healer and is also capable of giving you the worst of wounds you could ever imagine.Ego,grudges are some of the killers of the best of friendships.When people stop giving each other importance and are unable to find time for each other,this is when problems start budding b/w them.Being in a relationship and not giving time to your friends is the most uncool thing one can do.College taught me many things other than engineering itself. So let's just sort out things with our friends and hope for a new and fresh start to the neverending friendship.... :)

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#3 Being a TEENager

13-19 Years old. An age which we call as teenage and is the most delicate and crucial age as my mom says, to be a good person or to get into all the bad elements in the society. I am currently 19,the last teenage and I can give you the reason why she says so.At this point of time, the brain is all set to explore new things in life,but it doesn't have the maturity to understand what is good or bad for an individual.The age is filled with excitement and the energy to try even the stupidest of the things one can think of. Many teenagers get into a bad influence and commit horrific crimes while looking at the bright side some do miracles and excel in various fields, be it academic or sports.

Parents play a very important role at this age of their child.They should maintain the balance in trusting and restricting their child from various things accordingly.Imposing too much of restriction to a child of this age period may lead him/her to do things without the parents concern,and also too much of trust or love may give the child an opportunity to come under bad influence easily.A child must be punished accordingly when he/she does something bad.
Ah!I think I am gonna be a good parent one day! hehe! *pats on the back.

Also,this is one such age when you meet many temporary people in your life.People who say will be there with you always are now strangers,while people whom you thought you would never ever talk to are now a crucial part of your life.Nature of an individual is influenced by the experiences he/she has faced in this age.Many go through trust issues,many face a heartbreak,many are backstabbed,many even build best friendships ever and overall its sea of emotions with all kinds of fishes in it.But in my opinion, these things are also important for a person to experience.This is how we grow and this is how we learn,not the lessons of a book,but lessons for lifetime..... :) 

#2 Dehradun diaries.

Dehradun Valley,Bidholi.

A throwback to the summer times in college when I and my friends went for a casual trek alongside the river behind the college premises.I study in UPES Dehradun ,pursuing B.Tech in Computer Science and currently in Semester(V) of the course.Coming from a computer science background I was always passionate about working on computers!Also, I had no interest in science or mathematics either.I originally belong to Delhi(NCR-region) which has a flat terrain and coming to Dehradun and  having a gaze at such views was a mesmerizing experience to me. And why wouldn't it be to anyone who had been living in a super noisy and busy city like Ghaziabad? The serenity ,the calmness this place has makes it even more beautiful.Now everything is a just everyday thing for me but still,at times, Dehradun never fails to amaze me. :) 

#1 new hobby.

Well hello, fellow readers! I just started to blog and this is my first ever blog.I don't know how exactly this works,but I will try to blog more often and as I do that, I will improve on it gradually.Please bear with me.
Thanks!